Are there any legit Sugar Daddy sites?

Good question - most of the sites out there are definitely spammy, but there are a few that are actually legit if you go in with the right expectations:
  • Seeking.com – Probably the biggest legit sugar dating site. Real people, real profiles, and you’ll find a mix of sugar daddies, babies, and “mutually beneficial” setups. You do have to put in effort with your profile though.
  • WhatsYourPrice – Kinda different format. You basically offer to pay someone for a first date. A little less “sugar” and more transactional, but it can work if you're upfront about your arrangement goals.
  • SecretBenefits – Feels more private than the others. Lots of verified profiles, and it’s more focused on ongoing connections than quick chats.
It’s all about setting expectations early and spotting red flags fast.
 
One thing to watch out for: if a site lets anyone message without verifying themselves or paying, it's probably crawling with fake accounts.

Legit sugar sites usually require some level of investment, especially from daddies — that’s part of the filter.

Also, don’t ignore Reddit. Subs like r/SugarLifestyleForum and r/SugarDatingAdvice have great advice, real success stories, and tips for avoiding scams.

Anyone here had success in smaller cities? Or using non-sugar apps like Tinder or Bumble with a clear profile?
 
Smelly said:
Check out my post on the other thread, I gave a few sites that I met a sugar momma at, was a lucky guy lmao.
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Love this, great share btw.

Great input so far — and I completely agree with the earlier comments about needing to go into sugar dating with clear expectations and a strong filter for BS. Most sites are flooded with time-wasters, bots, or people with no real understanding of the sugar dynamic. That said, there are still a few platforms worth your time if you know how to use them.


Here’s a deeper dive into the ones I’ve tried (and what actually works):



✅ Seeking.com​


Still the go-to sugar dating site in 2025. It's a polished platform with tons of active users. You'll find:
  • Verified profiles if you're willing to pay
  • A solid mix of daddies, babies, and “lifestyle curious” people
  • Women looking for everything from mentorship to full-on luxury arrangements

Pro tips:
  • Invest time in writing a clear, classy profile
  • Use their message filters to weed out time-wasters
  • Be upfront but not crude — subtle confidence wins


💸 WhatsYourPrice​


This one’s different — you bid to go on a first date. That’s it. You pay if they accept the offer and meet you. It’s not as relationship-focused, but great for:

  • Casual sugar-style dating
  • Local meetups
  • Testing the waters without committing to a full dynamic

Can feel transactional, but it’s surprisingly real if you’re upfront about what you want.



🔒 SecretBenefits​


More private, and arguably less noisy than Seeking. A lot of women here are verified, and many are looking for ongoing arrangements instead of one-off meetups. It also:

  • Leans toward older daddies and mature sugar babies
  • Feels less like a dating app and more like a matchmaking space
  • Requires some paid credits to message, which keeps bots out


🌐 Reddit Subs (r/SugarDatingAdvice, r/SugarLifestyleForum)​

You don’t get fancy features or profile matching, but what you do get is:
  • Real people sharing success stories, scams, and red flags
  • Tips on bios, messages, and navigating paid sites
  • Opportunities to DM others (sometimes even IRL connections)
Also, some sugar babies use Reddit to advertise or connect discreetly — especially in major cities or university towns.



📱 Others...​


  • Tinder / Bumble – Yes, really. Set your bio clearly, like “Mutually beneficial connections only” or “Mentorship-focused dating.” You’ll be shocked how many people are already in the scene but don’t use sugar sites.
  • Luxy – High-end dating app with a strong luxury lifestyle angle. It's not technically sugar dating, but the user base is wealthier and open to arrangement-style dating.


🚩 Red Flags​

  • Profiles that ask for money before meeting
  • Daddies who refuse verification or video chats
  • Anyone pushing you off-site immediately
  • "Financial dommes" on sugar baby sites (unless you’re into that)
 
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